Many people ask how I got here, why I accompany women who are in periods of change and transition, and why coaching became my vocation. When I think about it, I don’t see one single explosive turning point — rather many small, layered moments: longer phases, subtle shifts, and sometimes completely unexpected realizations.

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I grew up bilingual. As a child, it felt like a gift: two cultures, two worlds, two homes. Later, I also saw its shadow side. My parents’ communication often seems difficult in hindsight, and a strange inner logic formed in me: as if I always had to choose between A and B. Hungarian or Polish. Dad or Mom. Black or white. As if “both” or “and-and” didn’t exist.

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I always felt like I didn’t fully fit in. In Hungary, because we didn’t go to Lake Balaton for holidays — we went to Poland. In Poland, because I never spoke the language perfectly. Somehow I was always moving between two worlds — and maybe that’s why I knew, even as a little girl, that one day I would live abroad. I also knew my husband wouldn’t be Hungarian. This duality was always there in me, quietly guiding me.

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In the corporate world, I first encountered what conscious, intentional communication looks like, and how change can be managed. I was completely fascinated: stakeholder maps, fine‑tuning messages, trainings, team dynamics.

 

And then there was coaching — which was something entirely different. I suspect I didn’t have many deep conversations as a child. When I first sat in a real coaching space filled with presence (with Emese, who is still my coach), the experience felt almost spiritual. And yet it was “just” attention, understanding, and beautiful energy.

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During coach training, something finally came together in me. Every session held one or more aha‑moments. That’s when it became clear that this is what I want to do.

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Coaching taught me that life is not black and white, and not everything is A or B. That there is space between the two. That it’s possible to feel at home in multiple identities, multiple cultures, multiple roles at the same time.

And perhaps this is the most important part: every single conversation I have today fills me up. I feel a kind of love in my heart that cannot be measured. This feeling is how I know I am exactly where I’m meant to be.